I have been living in Amsterdam for about 6 years now and the problem with being and mixing with expats is that most of them are not here permanently. The fact is most people come for work and stay for about 2 to 3 years so in the last six years I have waved goodbye to many good friends and another one of them is leaving at the end of July. It never gets any easier to say goodbye to them and gets even harder to then go off and try to meet new friends. In fact I met Tina (who leaves at the end of the month) through a dating website, she emailed me and asked if I fancied trying to meet men the traditional way i.e. whilst very drunk and wearing inappropriate shoes. On our first date after a few ladylike wines she casually asked if I would like to help her entertain 40 Irish dairy farmers who she knew through a friends cousin. Of course I said yes and the spent the rest of the next day being sick. We have been firm friends ever since and she was my most succesful date. She also gets all the credit for the talented Mr. Rigby as he was her friend first. I am going to miss her like crazy but there are still a few weekends left!!I met one of my other best friends out here too, although I actually went to school with her brother we didn’t meet till she moved Netherlands way. Keri and I could not be more different she married at 18 and had a baby about a week later closely followed by two more but she is my best friend luckily as she moved back to my home town we still see a fair bit of each other. We also tend to call each other on a Friday night and drink wine together and laugh till I wet myself. She is also a fantastic shopper and jewellery designer so the gifts are pretty good too!
So now have to go find friends again, what if no one wants to play with me.