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I never imagined the big white wedding so with less than a month to go I am still quite shocked to discover I am having one. However I did think of one thing when I thought of weddings, flowers. Oh the flowers. My mother loves flowers no matter how little money we had we always had fresh flowers. She makes fabulous arrangements and despite the 40 menthol a day habit her house always smells like a field! A minty one with touch of lavender.
Moving to the Netherlands was a dream come true for a flower addict like me, they are cheap, cheap here. Mr. Rigby indulges me regularly and I often run out of vases because I just can not resist at the florist. I never know all the names but pick on sculptural loveliness and colours alone.
But at my wedding I am having very few, I can not bring myself to pay UK prices for flowers flown from NL and I once had a very traumatic experience with a bouquet. About 10 years ago I was a bridesmaid, I had on a very very purple dress and held a rather lovely bouquet, however at photo time which I hate, the photographer asked me to lay my head on my bouquet and look wistful. I can safely say I do not look wistful in the photo, sarcastic and disgusted yes, wistful no. Two years ago when my mother remarried I was once again a bridesmaid and I spent then whole day leaving the bouquet on tables. So for mine I decided nothing for me and just simple orchid corsages for my ladies. Except that 14 of the 15 florists I approached would not even talk to me unless I wanted the 90 quid bouquet. Finally the lovely florist I picked said the perfect line “have what you want” I hired her instantly!
Trouble is she was so nice before I knew it I have ordered glass bowls for every table with calla lillies wrapped inside them and I am having a wrist corsage, orchids on a black ribbon.
But in case any of you are worried about how I am gonna throw a corsage, well I am not. I hate the throwing of the bouquet but my mother is having none of it. So she will be ordering a bouquet just so I can throw it!! Ridiculous yes but it was so much easier to agree with her and at least it comes with the added bonus is I can watch in amusement as all my single girlfriends just move casually away as I throw.
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